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Well

Posted on May 11th, 2003

It’s been quite a while since I’ve posted… probably the longest delay in posts that this thing has seen from me. To be honest, I’ve been wondering if I should bother continuing with the journal; I question whether or not it’s really worthwhile to continue writing here.. I’m not sure how much I get out of it. After all, I spend hours writing on here, whining and complaining and lamenting about the miseries of my life. Sometimes, there is a ray of light that shines through here once in a while, but, for the most part, this is me being a baby. And now that everyone who reads this thing knows how much of a suck I am, I don’t know if I want to continue hammering that image into your heads… Maybe I’ll just.. bottle everything up again. Things seemed to have worked out more or less the same when I did that instead.

In regards to where I’ve been, there’s not a whole lot to tell. I’ve been working 40 hours a week at semi-stupid times (evenings), so that takes care of most of the week. This past weekend, I went to Waterloo to visit St. Paul’s and with hopes to meet up with Kristin and other people who I haven’t seen in a little while. Sadly, she was busy, but I managed to hang out with the few people remaining at the college for the weekend. Crystal came up for a little while so we chilled for a bit, too. See the the files page of my web site for some pictures of my activities there.

Some of you know that I’ve had a lot on my mind for the past week or so. On Friday night, I didn’t go to bed until 6:30am, and I only managed to sleep intermittently for three hours. My head was very busy, wrestling with various issues that concern me. A similar story happened last night, although I did manage to sleep a bit longer. In any case, I’ve made a very important decision.

I can’t let it continue anymore; I can’t allow the feelings inside me to control my life. Instead, I have to fight them so that they will never get the best of me again. These negative emotions that make me sad and “mopey” have to be controlled, or I will continue to walk the road of life with fists clenched in my pockets and my head hung low. But that cannot continue. Get up, Justin. Get up.

For many days, I’ve been singing the sad songs. Today, I sang another, Made Of Steel (I must have heard it like thirty times this weekend on my Discman):

I can be anything that you want me to be
A punching bag, a piece of string, oh
That reminds you not to think

I found the note down in your car
And its not your fault it gets this hard
Gets this hard

Hold your head high
Don?t look down
I’m by your side
Won’t back down
You wanted a hero tonight

Well I’m not made of steel
I’m not made of steel
But your secrets safe with me

I can be anything that you want me to be
A holy cross, some sympathy, oh
That reminds you not to bleed

I found the note down in your car
And you climbed up here to fall apart
Fall apart

Hold your head high
Don’t look down
I’m by your side
Won’t back down
You wanted a hero tonight

Well I’m not made of steel
I’m not made of steel
But your secrets safe with me

No…
Your secrets safe with me

They knock you down
I’ll pick you up…
They laugh at you
I’ll shut them up

But I’m not made of steel
But I’m not made of steel
But I’m not made of steel
But your secrets safe with me
Yeah
Your secrets safe with me
But yeah

Hold your head high
Don’t look down
I’m by your side
Won’t back down
You wanted a hero tonight.

And that is what I must be: made of steel. No longer can I let the stuff that happens in my life get me down. I must believe, I must trust, I must have hope. And I do now. I’m starting to come around… I can feel it coming back now: the roller coaster is taking its ascent, and Justin is looking up.

4 Responses to “Well”

  1. Paul Says:

    Well, I’m glad you’re looking up! But just remember, don’t think of it as a roller coaster! – roller coasters always go back down, with you kicking and screaming all the way… Think of it as an escalator. Just keep your balance on the steps, and you keep going up!

    Anyhow, I’m glad to see all the new pictures. There ARE a lot of them! Hope this summer brings many more!!

    Paul

  2. Justin Says:

    To be honest, I don’t like escalators much… I always have some paranoia that I’m going to get stuck at the top. :/ And escalators break! But we must go forwards, not backwards; upwards, not forwards; and twirling,
    twirling, always twirling towards freedom. (Is there anything that the Simpsons can’t do for us?)

    It’s good to hear that you enjoy the pictures… there are others, but I didn’t copy them from John’s computer. I’ll see if I can get them one day. Eventually I’m going to have to organize the files section a little better…

  3. Paul Says:

    You can update your site at work! They’ll never know that you’re not working! =))))

    Paul

  4. Justin Says:

    Yeah right. They’ve got so many ports blocked it’s not funny. And I’m not sure how much “Liber Dei” has to do with financial solutions…

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